50 of 2010

Our Little family finally had the whole weekend together after 3 weeks.. *yeay*

We kicked the weekend off with lunch at Seri Meradun..

Dia doesn't look too happy does she? haha Me think she is a bit envious of Mummy and Daddy's food.. hehehe

Then a quick stop at Hua Ho Tanjung Bunut en route to Anjai's place

We introduced her to Mr Jolibeeeee...

Eeeeeeeeeeeeee....

Because the cake at Dia's birthday party was popular and we also received a request to bring some when we come over to the IL's place, we decided to buy a whole cake instead.. hehe well mainly because the left-overs abis sudahh.. hahaha

Mainly to Yaki cause he wasn't feeling well during Dia's party and was unable to attend the party..

Cutting the cake, after the birthday song.. (kenapa kalau potong cake mesti ada birthday song? hahaha)

Mummy gimmee more cake!!!

Since Dia is now one, we decided to take her to Jungle Gym! We almost didn't go cause the little girl was asleep and took her time getting up when we got there.. hehe

look at all these colorful balls!!!

Where are we again?

Dia enjoyed this slide! (and mummy tooo... tapi ngalih eh! i was sweating!!)

Upset cause we had to go home

Mummy: We have to go home cause Daddy wants to watch F1..
Dia: Ok Ok.. Nanti bawa Dia main sana lagi ah..
Mummu and Daddy: Ok.. We promise..

Back to reading her book

In the evening Momoi and Meejan dropped by our place.

Momoi and Caca

Noris Irmezan.. Can't believe this boy is almost 10!!!!

I had a great weekend.. with the exception of one incident.. I received a comment from someone that Dia looked very tiny during her birthday party and I was telling that person how Dia did not have any appetite hence why she lost weight.. and then that person said 'Kesian.. Apa jua ganya susu nya, susu mu..' I was stunned! I had to bite my tongue and ignore it but in my head the words were on replay.. Sedih kuuu!!! I am sincerely sad!!! because..
No 1. the perception that FM is better than BM
No 2. the perception that FM fed babies are bigger/fatter than BM fed babies.. I find that this is not entirely true cause i see babies who are FM fed who are not so big and BM fed babies who are bigger in size.. Its the babies nature bah.. Mun sudah andang badan anak ku damit.. kan ku paksa2 ia makan and minum, inda jua ia mauu..
No 3. And whats with the obsession of fattening a baby up? Big/fat babies does not mean they are healthier!
No 4. 'apa jua ganya susu mu' I think anyone will be jauh hati when those words are said to them.. As if my BM inda berkhasiat lah.. huhu

To to other BF-ing mommies out there or those who are planning to BF their babies.. Be prepared to get hurtful comments like this.. I know others who have received even worse comments like how BF-ing parents can't afford FM.. Just bite your tongue and smile.. This is the other side of the journey.. Like i always say If niat kitani tulus and ikhlas insyallah perjalanan kitani dipermudahkan.. Amin..
(apologies for the rather emotional post.. hurtful comments re BFing or rather my BM does not sit well on me..)